The big idea in plain words
Big-O is just a way of asking 'if the input gets bigger, how much more work do I do?' - not how many seconds it takes on your laptop. Think of cooking for guests: if 1 guest takes 1 step and 10 guests take 10 steps, the work grows in a straight line. But if every guest must shake hands with every other guest, the work grows much faster.
Example: finding a name by flipping a phone book page by page grows with its size - double the pages, double the flips. But opening to the middle and always throwing away half the book finds the name in only a handful of steps. Same goal, wildly different growth - and that difference is exactly what Big-O measures.